What this is all about? I want to meet my true love for cheap casual sex.

True love? So, we all want to find “the one”, eh?

We’ve seen enough movies about it, so it must be possible, right? A perfect match? How does it look like? Love? Dating? Relationship? It’s no surprise that many of us drive ourselves crazy looking for love because it seems to be the only thing anyone ever thinks about. But are soulmates real or do we live in fantasy world? And how to recognize them when they may appear in disguise? And what about to fall in love with the illusion?

To whom am I attracted? To someone with a good sense of humor or with a nice smile? To someone who is athletic and who does like snowboarding, skiing? To someone who does play tennis? To someone who does enjoy reading books? Do I want meet somebody who shares my dreams and desires? And if I want my ideal partner to be attracted to me, should I have to know who I am, what I want and like myself firstly? And what about advice – be authentic, be your best self, be confident, be open, be happy, try something old, try something new. Come on, man! And relationships will last longer if – if what? These understandings and these misunderstandings. These romances and dramas. At the end, happily ever after? Do we live a fairy tale?

So many things! And for what? For nothing. Especially, when we are talking about sex. Because, in bed, who cares about tennis. In bed, are you really thinking about snowboarding or books? When you make a list of desirable traits, most likely you will be attracted to a person in real life who exhibits quite different traits. Because the subconscious is a bitch. Then why bother with such a list?

Let’s do the opposite instead and take it easy. Let your instincts guide you. And we all know – where our instincts guide us – to a cheap casual sex. And let’s add no-neediness as the most powerful aphrodisiac. And we’re high – #marwel! Then where are the oysters? #noneedoysters

But at the same time, remember – don’t give a fuck about many people and many things. Because then life fucks you. And at the end, we all want life to be pretty fucking easy.

But what if the quality of a cheap casual sex is based on love?

V.